Financially Independent, Retired Early(ish) at 57.

My (imaginary) Money magazine interview.

Today's beach walk.

I’m not a magazine reader, so it came as news to me when someone on Twitter said that Dave from Strong Money Australia gave a shout out to a few Aussie FIRE bloggers (including me – thanks Dave!) in a Money Magazine story about the FIRE movement in Australia.

Of course, I was anxious to read it, so I downloaded the Libby app and borrowed Money magazine from the library. (That’s another $9 off my “Earn my rates back” reading quest. ) I’d recommend reading the article for yourself, but in a nutshell, they interviewed 7 people who have either finished the FIRE path or are on their way along it. All but one were younger than me and all had different ways of navigating the path towards total financial freedom.

It made me wonder what I would have said, had I been interviewed. I’ve been a single mother for well over 20 years and have brought up my 4 boys on my own, all while working as a secondary teacher. I still have two of them at home with me, while the oldest and the youngest have flown the nest.

I stumbled across the FIRE movement around 8 or 9 years ago by reading a blog called ‘Go Curry Cracker’. I remember asking him in the comments what this ‘FIRE’ acronym stood for. I was 49, I had just paid off the house and was worried about how I could ever possibly afford to retire.

Imagine my relief when I read the famous post by Mr Money Mustache about The Shockingly Simple Math Behind Early Retirement and I realised that by doing what I was already doing – (ie: saving and investing 50%+ of my take-home pay) I was on track to being able to retire at 67 with over a million dollar nest-egg. I could retire at pension age and not need to eke out my life on the pension.

That did it. I was hooked! I wanted to learn all I could about this FIRE stuff. I devoured blogs, books and podcasts. I hate Maths and numerals with a passion, but even someone as Maths-phobic as I am can learn, given enough repetition of the basic concepts.

Last year, at the age of 57, I retired. Ten years ahead of schedule.

I’m not your stereotypical ‘FIREy’ person, being older than a millennial, single with kids, coming from a career not really known for being lucrative and also being female. (And non-American…)

So what would I have said to the Money magazine people if they’d come knocking at my door? Here goes:

Frogdancer Jones* (* not her real name.)

Retired: at age 57.

Lives: beachside in suburban Melbourne with 2 of her 4 sons. Also with her 3 dogs who she possibly loves more than her children.

Career: Secondary teacher.

“I really believe that the secret to becoming financially independent is underpinned by three very important things,” says Frogdancer Jones as she pours a cheeky shiraz. “You have to know what you value in life so you can concentrate your time, effort and money on those things. You have to be able to see the value in delaying gratification – to be a long-term thinker, in other words. And you have to be willing to learn, so that when life offers up an opportunity, you can recognise it and – even more importantly, know what to do with it.”

The last point had a huge impact on the trajectory of Ms Jones’ financial life when, after years of struggling to bring up four boys and pay a mortgage on a teacher’s wage, she grabbed hold of an offer to develop her East Bentleigh property in a much sought-after school zone. This enabled her to release the equity in the property and move to a cheaper, but better, house further away from the CBD.

“Being able to pivot from my original plan to stay there until I was carried out in a pine box saved me having to work for an extra decade,” said Frogdancer. “I would never have had the courage to do it if I hadn’t have spent all of that time reading and listening to people who have already trodden the path to financial independence.”

So what does financial independence and early retirement mean to this early(ish) retiree?

“For me, the security of financial independence is an absolute gift. I left my husband back in 1997 with 4 boys under 5 and $60 cash. There were years of struggling to provide for my boys and pay the mortgage – it wasn’t easy to live off 18K/year of Centrelink benefits until the boys were all in school and I could go back to work. The frugal habits I learned back then have really paid off! If I have to, we can live off the smell of an oily rag. It took me a long time to lose the fear that I didn’t have ‘enough’ to retire on.

“Also, being able to retire at 57 is an even greater gift. For the first time in my life, I can be totally selfish. My kids are grown, I have no grandchildren and all I have to worry about looking after are the dogs and my garden. I can spend my days entirely as I choose – the freedom is absolutely incredible. I can highly recommend retirement!”

Recommended books and blogs: ‘The Millionaire Next Door’ – Stanley; ‘The Simple Path to Wealth – Collins; Strong Money Australia; The Retirement Manifesto; Aussie Hi-Fire and Late Starter Fire.


After writing this, Money magazine heard about it and asked permission to rewrite it into an article. Here’s the REAL Money Magazine interview.


  1. Latestarterfire

    Money Magazine should interview you – fabulous story plus you’ve done the hard work for them, haha! And thank you for recommending my blog, even if it’s an imaginary interview, it’s much appreciated:)

  2. Budget Life List

    Your imaginary interview was splendid! My favorite part: Also with her 3 dogs who she possibly loves more than her children. 😆

    Your story is motivation for everyone who isn’t typical FIRE material like low wage, big dreamers like me!

    • FrogdancerJones

      It’s early morning on a Tuesday and I’m sitting with a coffee and the 3 little woofs on the couch. All 3 are dead to the world…

  3. Kathy Aylward

    Love hearing about your journey..can you check your link to Go Curry Cracker as it doesn’t appear to be working.

    • FrogdancerJones

      Thanks for letting me know. It should be working now. 🙂

  4. LadyFIRE

    Very nice article, thanks for sharing! It’s always good to hear from people who’ve already completed the journey. Hope I’ll get there one day! All the best to you and the dogs (so cute) 🙂

    • FrogdancerJones

      You’ll get there!
      And it’s so wonderful when you do…

  5. josie

    Besides the freedom to choose, you have gained 10 years of presumably better health and mobility than if you had retired at 67! This is huge, especially for those trips you are planning :)) Love your blog posts – they always make me smile!

    • FrogdancerJones

      Thanks! I’m just about to set out for a walk on the dog beach.

  6. Aussie HIFIRE

    Haha you’ve done all the work for Money Magazine next time they do an article on the FIRE movement.

    And thanks for the mention despite all the math on my blog!

    • FrogdancerJones

      They’ve asked if they can edit it and publlsh it. 🙂

  7. gofi

    My favorite line: For the first time in my life, I can be totally selfish.
    It made me smile. How nice?
    Tell us about all the selfish things you’ve been doing – a selfish list, may be?

    • FrogdancerJones

      I’m a woman of simple pleasures…
      Mainly being released from having to toe the line with someone else’s timetable. It’s a strange and beautiful thing to have total control over every hour of the day.

  8. Dividend Power

    I used to read magazines al the time. Now I am mostly reading online.

    • FrogdancerJones

      I’m thinking that the online magazines are the way to go.

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